It gets better...
Looking at my tyres I noticed more wear on the outside of the passenger side wheel - enough to get me a warning from the local constabulary, should I be stopped. So, I knew new tyres were due this year, I forked out on a full set of Michelin's (more later). While in the tyre depot, the owner checked out the bearing, and the caliper for play, he gave the whole thing a blast from the compressor too. No play on bearing, no tell-tale marks on the disk, no play in half-shaft - that he could see or feel.
New wheels on - drive home - c.20 miles. Decide to brake a lot and take corners 'well'. Then slowed down to 20 in the villages (it's the new speed limit in Borders - the Audi hates it!) and NO howl - 20 was the speed it usually kicked in at. To double check, I drove into England...to Berwick for my shopping. No howl in the town.
There is still a judder on braking though, so it was agreed by pal in Glasgow and at the tyre depot, that it could be uneven wear on the pads - the wheel alignment was out, and it's all corrected now. So we shall see. A set of pads is a lot cheaper than a caliper.
The tyres - I know I asked ages ago. I have Pirelli on when I got the car - but these Michelin Pilot Sport are excellent for noise and grip. Mainly a summer tyre it seems, but so far so good.
Let's wait and see if it's the pads then!