Thanks Gareth
I was away and never had time to respond to him properly one of the listings was for a new one and I managed to get the part numbers from a dealership which I cross matched with the one Kev had listed and all the numbers are the same apart from the last two letters. So I chanced my arm and contacted the dealership again and got the same person and explained to him about the difference. And I was pleasantly surprised when he said he would put an enquiry into VAG for me to see what other ones fitted but it can take a while for them to get back to them. So I took a liter of vodka into dealership for the parts man as a thank you. So I will let you know how I get on. I thought about altering a subframe to fit but any welding to subframe is a mot failure.