Good question and fair comments! As a bit of background we've owned this as our second car for 18 months, it had allegedly had an oil change before we bought it (independent dealer) and then we gave it an oil service after 12 months/5kish miles, so roughly October last year.
You may ask why we bought a 1.6 petrol car for school runs - a diesel was out of the question for such short journeys (DPF nightmares) and while this car is mostly used for school runs, we also occasionally use it for long family trips as I can't comfortably fit the whole family in my car, so wanted something with a small-ish engine but wouldn't be completely out of its depth on a motorway either. And yeah, we weren't going to spend 25k+ on an electric car for the kids to ruin 😄 So this seemed like a decent compromise.
I last checked the oil about 3 months ago, there was a little yellow sludge on the cap, as there always is, but none on the dipstick, that is new. It seems to have got much worse recently. The engine used to get up to temperature fine, obviously not on the short school runs, but on longer journeys.