Just an update after such a lot of bumper hassles i decided to claim on my insurance so at the moment my car is in the bodyshop in Newbury which is handy as Audi are also there.
i have been told its a 2 week turn around which i`m hoping it wont be, out of this i get a new bumper, underbelly pan and a keyed rear panel and rear passenger scratch sorted
down side is they left me a fiat 500 to use its not moved since it arrived lol